How You Look Matters

Nothing exudes confidence better than your appearance. First impressions are hard to forget and most likely the lasting ones. If you're going to put your best foot forward, start by looking the part first. What am I talking about here? Am I suggesting that you go out and get a copy of that fall fashion catalog you saw your neighbor perusing over the other day? Appearance, folks is not just based on how you look. It's how you carry yourself. It's the way you talk. Do you talk with the utmost confidence or just simply mumble your words? It's also the way you project your personality towards others. These and your outward appearance can say a ton about you ( and consequently mean being hired or having your application relegated to the "other" stack).

The first order of the day is learning how to broaden your vocabulary. Strengthening your word power can project intellectuality but more importantly it shows you are a willing learner. Be a wide reader and try to look up confounding words if you can. Also, how you answer can mean a lot. If you are asked a yes or no question then give a yes or no answer. If asked to elaborate further then do so. Don't go beyond the scope of the question because your answers will fall on deaf ears.

Secondly, personal hygiene and grooming are essential. They indicate whether you are health conscious and look after yourself. Tidiness at the workplace and home can also say a lot of your character. Individuals who are detail-conscious are goal oriented and this sort of work ethic can mean the difference between coming up with solutions or being barraged with endless suggestions. Remember that hard work builds character.

Thirdly, power dress yourself but don't overdo it. Keep your wardrobe simple and don't accessorize to the point of vanity. Wearing loud colors won't help either. On a job interview black is the gold standard. Keeping your wardrobe pressed and free of stains speaks volumes of your projected image. You don't want to look like you do at 5 o'clock when it's only 9 a.m. in the morning now do you? Also. don't over accessorize. Use soft glow colors and less printed fabrics.

Lastly, learn to speak and act with positivity. Stand tall and exude confidence. Be humble yet sure, be friendly yet reserved, be open and willing yet non-compromising. So you see, it's not JUST the way you look that reflects who and what you are. Of course don't get caught in your local supermarket wearing your house scrubs. Always look your best and be at your best. You'll never know when you will be caught off guard and unawares. Project an image that says what you want other people to think of you. Carry yourself appropriately and accordingly. Never loose your calm in any situation. How you look matters because how you are seen ( especially for the first time) already instills an 80% image in the mind's eye of the casual observer. So look your best. Until our next post,folks.