The 7 Pertinent Things

There are really only several things that matter in life. They make up the core of who you are.Remember that the fundamental things in life never change; they are as they are now as they always were. Don't complicate your life by putting a lot of effort and energy in misdirected priorities. The funny thing about human nature is that we, as human beings, tend to lose interest in many of the things we start and over time we search and yearn for more. A lot of us start something and fail to see it through because we tend to lose interest or find out later on that what we were engaged in isn't really for us. This same concept is seen in almost all forms of endeavor whether they relate to your personal life, your work, or any field of interest that you happen to like. We tend to be whimsical and easily get restless. Why is that do you often wonder? Well, as we evolve, as we grow, and as we strive in a constantly changing world we have this need to be essentially in control in almost all aspects of our lives. We feel that we need to stay on top of things in order to achieve that level of security we constantly strive for. The sad fact is in all of this is that we often times miss out or only have a vague idea of the things that really matter. Wouldn't you be more happier if you try to live a simpler life, making the most of any situation, being always positive and focused. Let me tell you that money is essential for our survival but it isn't the key to our survival. The concept about money revolves around the fact that as you make more, your needs increase dramatically, and with that so does your need to make more money. What if, for instance, everything you worked so hard for including all of your money was taken from you. Where would you be then? We would feel at a complete loss is that not true?

The first thing that matters is your Faith.

•  How well do you practice your faith? 
• What do you really mean when you say to yourself that you believe? 

The second thing that matters is your Health

•  We have already talked about this in one of our past posts. Do remember that Healthy means physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally healthy.
• Be conscious and proactive in implementing a healthy lifestyle. Remember that everything starts and ends with you.

The third thing that matters is your Family.

•  I know it's often hard to spend some time together with your family but make it a priority in your life to actually be there for them in their time of need. 
• Learn how to talk to your kids so they don't feel uneasy whenever they want to consult you for anything whether its advice or as simple as an opinion.
• If tension exists in your family try to work towards a solution.

The fourth thing that matters is your Love.

•  How well do you love?
• Remember that ALL COMES FROM LOVE. Think about that one.
• Let the people in your life know that you love them. Show them that you do and let them feel that. Saying you love someone isn't enough if they don't feel your love.

The fifth thing that matters is your Principles in life.

•  What foundations have you set for yourself? I don't just mean your work ethic here.
• Try to go back in the beginning posts and read about the 4 basic principles I have cited; AN OPEN MIND, AN UNDERSTANDING HEART, CLARITY OF VISION, SINGULARITY OF PURPOSE.

The sixth thing that matters is your Social Obligations.

• How well do you function in the workplace?
• Are you a good friend? 
• Do you radiate positivity to your colleagues?

The seventh thing that matters is the Legacy you will leave behind.

• How do you want to be remembered?

The 7 Pertinent Things are rather simple are they not? If you were to write down on a piece of paper your thoughts on the question "What matters most in you life?" do you think one or several of the above would be included in your list? What I am driving at here is the beauty of arriving to a level of contentment in your life where you feel connected to the people around you, to your faith, to the world  outside, and most importantly to yourself. Rekindle or reassess what's important to you. Who cares if the next door neighbor's car is more expensive than yours. There are many things in life that we lack but there are more things in life we didn't know we had. Remember that.

Don't trap yourself in a life where you feel you constantly have to strive in order to belong. Take a step back and rethink your priorities. Try to remember who you are, what you are, and why you are here. Never short change yourself. Always take the path of least resistance and always fight the good fight. We only got one take,folks and let's make this one count not only for us but also for the people we love, the people who complete us. Until our next post then...take care of yourselves...and do love one another.